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Letter to: Baerbel Froehlin, CHt./Hypnocoach, Smooth Changes Hypnotherapy ... Letter to:
Baerbel Froehlin, CHt./Hypnocoach, Smooth Changes Hypnotherapy
January 7, 2003
A lot has happened in my life since I first met Baerbel. I think it was in September 2002. That was one of the first miracles I encountered this year.
I have been living in constant pain for about 17 years. It started with a back injury in the mid 80's, and later I was diagnosed with Fibromyalgia. I have chronic Tendonitis and have also been plagued with chronic sinus infections for several years. It seemed as though all I knew was illness, depression and pain. Being alone for the first time in many years has also added to the depression.
I decided I didn't want to live like this any more, and was at a point of giving up, when I ran into an old friend, and she suggested I call Baerbel at "Smooth Changes Hypnotherapy". I looked up the web site, and read some of the testimonials. But my friend neglected to give me Baerbel's phone number. I looked in the phone book and couldn't find the number, so I decided to forget it. Well, the next day here comes a note from my friend Jean with Baerbel's phone number in it. I took that as a sign and made that call. I left a message and Baerbel called me right back and we talked for quite a while. It really felt like we had a connection. I knew that I had found someone who would help me. She is truly my Angel.
In the past 4 months we have worked on many issues. Some from my childhood, that I wasn't aware of, even though I have spent many years in therapy. In one session I felt that I cleared up my relationship with my father, and I saw him in such a different way. It was very enlightening.
I have also been giving voice to the dark part of myself that has had the job of keeping me sick. I know when I created that part and why, and it has been doing a great job ever since, but it is now time to reassign it to another job and let it rest.
I have been giving thanks for any improvement, no matter how small, and the improvements keep happening. I am starting to feel as though it is time for me to find purpose in my life, and am going to start volunteering for some organizations that I feel passionate about.
I have also gotten back doing art, and was actually able to show some of my work at a showing that Baerbel had at her office. That was such a boost to my self-esteem, that I have gone on to do more creative works, and at some time would like to sell some of my art.
The best advice I can give is DON'T EVER GIVE UP!
There is someone out there that can help you. Please give Baerbel a call. I know when you talk to her you will feel like I did, that you have a dear friend who really cares.
Blessings,
Rita D.
This is how Rita expressed her feelings when she started Hypnotherapy. Drawing by Rita D.
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To Baerbel When I get to the end of my rope, Y... To Baerbel
When I get to the end of my rope,
You are there.
When I think that I couldn't possible take another step,
You are there.
When I can't see the light anymore,
You are there.
When I feel like
I can't ever reach out,
You are there.
When I wonder
How tomorrow will be,
You are there
Reminding me
That it will be just great!
Thanks for being there………
- 10/5/01 ~Kris~ Monument, CO
Baerbel always knows the right words to say, the right questions to ask; she is the grea... Baerbel always knows the right words to say, the right questions to ask; she is the great guide!
- Abundance Workshop November 2002 ~J. McD.~ Colorado Springs
Very good! You've helped me so very much!! I got some clearer images of things I want to... Very good! You've helped me so very much!! I got some clearer images of things I want to achieve.
- Abundance Workshop November 2002 ~Rita D.~ Colorado Springs
I got re-united with my Inner Child. You are the best!... I got re-united with my Inner Child.
You are the best!
- Abundance Workshop November 2002 ~Hannah R.~ Colorado Springs
Wonderful! I felt so at peace and so comfortable with sharing my thoughts and reaching for a... Wonderful! I felt so at peace and so comfortable with sharing my thoughts and reaching for answers. If only I could come every week!!!
- July 2001 ~Michelle B.~ Green River, CO
Your classes I have taken have been wonderful … and I have been moving forward quite ... Your classes I have taken have been wonderful … and I have been moving forward quite a bit! Thanks.
- July 2001 ~Denise~ Colorado Springs
What can I say but "I love you" and think you are a great facilitator - one of... What can I say but "I love you" and think you are a great facilitator - one of the very best if not THE best I've ever known!
- 1/12/02 Vision Map Workshop ~Donna~
As usual, none can compare! I appreciate your guidance and help as I go. I like t... As usual, none can compare!
I appreciate your guidance and help as I go. I like that you offer creative suggestions, are honest about what you see, and ask me questions to guide my own thinking.
- 1/12/02 Vision Map Workshop ~Kris~
I am always amazed what you help us create! You are the best teacher. I feel wonderfu... I am always amazed what you help us create!
You are the best teacher. I feel wonderful ….about being here with all these incredible women and learning from them. I feel filled up - nourished by what we did - what we learned. I see myself now and where I am going so much more clearly. Thank you.
- 1/12/02 Vision Map Workshop ~Jan~
Dear Baerbel, I just wanted you to know that I am thinking of you and I am sending gr... Dear Baerbel,
I just wanted you to know that I am thinking of you and I am sending great waves of peace and happiness to you. May you receive ten fold in return all the help and healing you have given to me.
- 12/25/01 J.M. Colorado Springs
Baerbel, Thanks so much for the information today! It helped me a lot to g... Baerbel,
Thanks so much for the information today!
It helped me a lot to get clarity on what to do…..I found out that I just have to keep chisling at this wall that my body has and don't give up until it is all the way knocked down. …I decided to start journaling … and focus on all the positive in my life for me to get stronger.
Your class on Saturday helped me to figure that out. Thank you so much for that.
- Vision Map Workshop 1/15/02 Denise, Colorado Springs
Dearest Baerbel, Love to you Hope from you Inspiration for ... Dearest Baerbel,
Love to you
Hope from you
Inspiration for living
And creating love for myself!
- Christmas 2002 ~Donna K.~ Colorado Springs
Thanks to you, for all you do to support all of us (but me especially!!) It was a... Thanks to you, for all you do to support all of us (but me especially!!)
It was a great day for me, and it started out a bit on a sour note. I came in a little out of sorts, and wasn't sure how it was going to go for me.
So, thank you!
- 1/15/02 Kris, Colorado Springs
Wow, yesterday was excellent! Thank YOU for the thinking, the direction, the supp... Wow, yesterday was excellent!
Thank YOU for the thinking, the direction, the support. It was a great workshop.
- 1/15/02 Jan, Colorado Springs
For Baerbel Complete support Unconditional, helpfu... For Baerbel
Complete support
Unconditional, helpful, unyielding
No matter what.
Complete understanding
Kindness, honesty, trust.
Every single encounter
Whenever I reach out
You reach toward me
Holding me up
Supporting my burdens
Lightening my load
Every single encounter.
I can make mistakes
Speak too soon
Too sharply
Too ignorantly
And you are still there.
Every single encounter
And I thank you.
November 23, 2001
To Baerbel
Thanks for believing in me
For trusting me
Accepting me.
For liking me for who I am
Not what you wish I could be.
Thanks for helping me to stand
When I thought I could only fall.
Gently, quietly, without too many words
I know you are there
And that gets me through
More, so much more
Than you could ever know.
Thank you.
January 28, 2002
TRUST
Trust
Complete, unconditional acceptance
Allowing mistakes
Embracing differences
Laughter, tears - all okay, natural
Trust
Believing in me, believing in you
Knowing I am okay in your eyes
No matter what
I am human
Far from perfect
But I am okay
Trust
May 28, 2002
Baerbel,
thanks for showing me through your acceptance of me
that I can trust again - trust you, trust me,
and begin to reach out,
trusting others.
- K.M., Monument, CO
April 15, 2002--GOOD NEWS! When checking various publications for Fibromyalgia... April 15, 2002--GOOD NEWS!
When checking various publications for Fibromyalgia support groups in Colorado Springs, I found much more than I had ever realized possible with Smooth Changes. I found renewed hope with Baerbel, the owner and founder, during our initial phone conversation. She presented me with an educated, nurturing, compassionate understanding of a key healing factor -- the value of relaxation.
Although I attributed my complete condition to an old back injury, I am convinced that my first major FMS flare occurred in 1985. Through many years of living with pain, fatigue, confusion, frustration, doubt, as I searched for healing; I was finally diagnosed with Fibromyalgia in 1994 and went on permanent disability benefits in 1997. Fibromyalgia is a multi-faceted, elusive and foggy "dis-ease" destructive to all aspects of a person's being. By this, I mean that it can be horribly painful and devastatingly draining physically, emotionally and psychologically.
Baerbel has been sensitive to my circumstances and committed to my mission to wholeness. Her soothing voice and assuring expertise took me to light places in my subconscious mind that I could never have found alone. She is truly passionate about her work.
I attained deep relaxation and substantial pain relief during the first session with Baerbel and Smooth Changes. Every session with her is a "power hour" in a safe and comfortable environment. After four sessions, I am realizing substantial success.
I extend my appreciation to one great lady. Thank you Baerbel.
Sincerely,
- Mary E. McQ., Colorado Springs CO
Reference Letter for: Baerbel Froehlin / Smooth Changes January 31, 2002... Reference Letter for:
Baerbel Froehlin / Smooth Changes
January 31, 2002
It is my pleasure to write a letter of reference for Baerbel Froehlin, the woman who is responsible for guiding me through life changing therapy. In March of 2001 I was going through a deep depression when a friend suggested that I call Baerbel. In fact, she didn't suggest; she insisted. My friend recognized that I had reached the end of my rope and that I was having more and more trouble finding reasons to hang on. Although I had resisted therapy for all of my life, I knew the time had come to at least give it a try. There were no open doors for me or any glimmers of light ahead, and I chose to believe that Baerbel might in fact hold the answer I was searching for.
At the first meeting, Baerbel talked to me quite a bit about what was going on in my life, and how I was feeling. I shared with her that I wasn't sure about therapy, and she assured me that I would not be in therapy for life, but instead, for a period of time only, and that I would be walking away with a "toolbox of techniques" to help myself feel better day to day. I was encouraged by that positive perspective about my ability to handle my own troubles, with just a little help. We talked a lot about my job situation, but I was really trying to see if this could be a person to trust and help me. By the time the two hours were up, I knew therapy with Baerbel was going to work for me.
I saw Baerbel weekly for just two months, and quickly got beyond work issues to childhood issues of abuse that had haunted me for years. In her gentle, quiet manner, Baerbel helped me to bring up my past and deal with it today. She always knew when I had enough on one topic or needed more time on another. I never felt pressured to say or do anything that I didn't feel comfortable with, and instead, felt supported, for the first time in my life, to go at my own pace and work through the emotions. Baerbel's office is a very safe place for me, always.
Baerbel has always offered me unconditional support in a variety of ways. We have exchanged long, detailed e-mails, that I often write at odd hours when she can't be reached, but when I feel like I need her help. Though obviously it is not always possible for her to respond immediately, she always gets back to me soon, and I always feel better for the contact and advice. She has also called me on numerous occasions to check on how I am doing. I have always known that she cares and that means a great deal to me.
Art therapy workshops, designed to help women to express their emotions through collages and tapestries, are another mode of healing that Baerbel uses. Because I never considered myself creative, I shied away at first, but since taking them, I can see their inherent value to my own healing. There are no right or wrong answers in this therapy, and I have had great success with finding my own way through colors and materials, something I never would have believed that I could do.
Baerbel also holds weekly women's group sessions at her office. These sessions have been instrumental in helping me to learn more about myself through my interactions with others in a safe environment. Here, I have learned to take off my mask of hiding and experiment with allowing people to know who I really am. It is my place of peace and discovery and it truly gets me through each week better and better.
There is no doubt in my mind that Baerbel saved my life - literally and figuratively. She knows of the sorrows and pains that women have dealt with and easily applies healing techniques that work. I strongly recommend her services, and am happy to discuss aspects of my experiences further.
- Kris M, Colorado Springs




